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am i gay?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Colosses, Jun 14, 2011.

  1. Colosses

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    i find myself looking at boys in my class and thinking there is something about him but i always push that thot away but i spiend more and more time looking at men and apresheating there bodes. I have never had a fantasy about me and a female and i never check them out but i like to hang whit them so what is up whith that:bang:? i also have dreams of me and men abaut 80 persint of them r romantic. Am i gay or not i am confused:eusa_doh:? p.s i am dyslexic so i apologies for my speling
     
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    You are queer.

    Gays do like to hang out with girls as well as guys. You may be bisexual but from what you've said its looking like you're just gay.
     
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    will look at it from my point of veow. in medal school i was acutest of being gay and i was not intristid i iny sex the utter kids wear so mean to me and naw out of the blue im gay it is not essay to forgot my past :icon_sad:
     
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    Schools can be very harsh places to be. But, as you grow to accept yourself, you will find that the people around you will accept you too.

    You've made a big step by joining this forum and hopefully you will find it as useful as I have.
    This forum is very good and has very supportive and knowledgeable members who are always willing to help.

    Welcome :slight_smile:
     
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    k thanks for the support.
     
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    Seeing as you've never had a fantasy about being with girls or anything like that, you're probably gay. Schools can be harsh ( I wouldn't know about high school because I'm not completely out) but I was also accused of being gay in grade school. I didn't mind/get upset about it because I was comfortable with myself and the people who said it were just like obnoxious and I wasn't friends with them. Don't get upset. Leave your past behind and try to get comfortable with the thought of being gay.

    If you're afraid of people treating you differently because you're gay, don't. If you tell people who are REALLY your friends, they'll love you the same way they did before they knew. Good luck!
     
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    thanks for the support.
     
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    yeah dont be bummed out schools always tough but as soon as you grad then you will be ok the outside world is mostly accepting so long as you accept yourself keep your chin up man its better that way
     
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    ya you r right but it will still tack time.
     
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    Gonna have to give you a yes on the gay, thats exactly how is started with me
     
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