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in a relashinship?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Colosses, Jun 16, 2011.

  1. Colosses

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    my friend left me a tx she wonted to no if i was to be in a relationship which man wood i be... dos she mean in bed or injinaral i cant tell maby yall can help me figure that out. dos the tip of men i an in to thac affect their? if so i like tall me that r alita older than me.men that r brod shoulderd and they can be slightly puny but i prefer muscular men and short hear is a tern on for me.
     
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    There's a common stereotype that in a gay relationship, one partner takes the male role and the other takes the female role. That could be what she's asking.
     
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    ya i that is what she is asking.
     
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    k so win i had fantises like the 1 in my profial pik i always see myself as the guy neling over the guy partly laying daun so am i mor of the female role?
     
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    no. There is no female role. It's a gay relationship. It's between two men. Giving someone of the same sex pleasure doesn't mean you're a girl or feminine at all.

    Your friend is ignorant, and offensive. You should tell them that you're the man in the relationship and so is whoever you decide to date. I don't know who's telling straight people that there always has to be a masculine and feminine role in any relationship...
     
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    People can build a relationship anyway they see fit. It seems most straight people want to "assign" roles, though, although they don't seem to have any one template for doing so. If I'm usually the "top", but I do most of the housework, does that make me "the man" or "the woman"?

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    k i git it so i can be what ever i wont to call myself in the relationship b/c it dus not mater it just kindof hapins.(!)