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My love?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by deadgiveaways, Jun 25, 2011.

  1. deadgiveaways

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    When ever my boyfriend and i talk or text he always says "i love u". I dont know if i feel that way yet. The last time i talked 2 him he asked if i loved him.....i said i dont really know yet. I really like him but i dont know if i love him yet. How do i know if and when i love him????????:help:
     
  2. Lexington

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    Simple answer - you don't. It's usually not like a light comes on to let you know "yes, I love him now". Some people feel it right away, and others need time to let it develop.

    It sounds like you're doing everything right. You're not lying. So just keep him informed. "It sounds like you might be a bit further down the road than I am right now. But I'm enjoying the relationship, so I don't mind continuing along and seeing if I can catch up to you."

    Lex