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about sex.. help please?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lindseyrae, Jul 3, 2011.

  1. lindseyrae

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    so.. i'm bisexual/pansexual(aka, i love personality, not certain genders).
    i've had girlfriends before, but i've never been close enough to experience certain things with them.
    i'm currently dating a girl, i really feel could be the one, and..
    i'm not sure what all there is to do, sexually, with a girl as a girl. this may be a dumb question but i don't know how to go about having intimate relations with her if i have no idea what to do.
     
  2. have you talked to your girlfriend about this? and/or has she ever had sex with another girl?
     
  3. StarofMiyu

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    Tongues and fingers are amazing things for having fun
     
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    Trust me, you'll figure it out on your own. Just remember to be safe, since even though pregnancy isn't a possibility you can still get some nasty infections. Good luck! (*hug*)
     
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    TFT, my friend, TFT...tongues, fingers, and toys. (look at me, sounding all wise, like i'm not a virgin :lol:. don't listen to me, i have no idea what i'm talking about. that's an interesting thing to google though...i bet you'll get some ideas there!)
     
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    Don't make the mistake some people do & watch pornography to learn all about it. Seriously, porn is just a really exaggerated production of something natural & beautiful between two people. I really wish I hadn't made this mistake myself, because my first time was not very enjoyable because I had screwed preconceptions & notions about what was expected from me & what I was supposed to expect from her. It was just horrible...
     
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    in addition to oral sex and other things you can do with your mouth and or hands there is scissoring
     
  8. lindseyrae

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    Thanks for all the answers so far. I have talked to my girlfriend about it but she just says tongue and fingers. I haven't asked her yet about toys.
    I've tried googling info, but obviously I Judy got porn which I didn't expect to help much. I just wonder if there's others besides fingering or 'eating out'.
     
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    Whatever activities you do decide to engage in with your partner, it's really important to have safe sex with her. There's a whole section on safe sex under the Resources tab, I think...
     
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    Yep, that'd be pretty important too...

    Nice to see another Canadian here, RaeofLite! Greetings from Ontario, BTW!