so.. i'm bisexual/pansexual(aka, i love personality, not certain genders). i've had girlfriends before, but i've never been close enough to experience certain things with them. i'm currently dating a girl, i really feel could be the one, and.. i'm not sure what all there is to do, sexually, with a girl as a girl. this may be a dumb question but i don't know how to go about having intimate relations with her if i have no idea what to do.
Trust me, you'll figure it out on your own. Just remember to be safe, since even though pregnancy isn't a possibility you can still get some nasty infections. Good luck! (*hug*)
TFT, my friend, TFT...tongues, fingers, and toys. (look at me, sounding all wise, like i'm not a virgin :lol:. don't listen to me, i have no idea what i'm talking about. that's an interesting thing to google though...i bet you'll get some ideas there!)
Don't make the mistake some people do & watch pornography to learn all about it. Seriously, porn is just a really exaggerated production of something natural & beautiful between two people. I really wish I hadn't made this mistake myself, because my first time was not very enjoyable because I had screwed preconceptions & notions about what was expected from me & what I was supposed to expect from her. It was just horrible...
Thanks for all the answers so far. I have talked to my girlfriend about it but she just says tongue and fingers. I haven't asked her yet about toys. I've tried googling info, but obviously I Judy got porn which I didn't expect to help much. I just wonder if there's others besides fingering or 'eating out'.
Whatever activities you do decide to engage in with your partner, it's really important to have safe sex with her. There's a whole section on safe sex under the Resources tab, I think...
Yep, that'd be pretty important too... Nice to see another Canadian here, RaeofLite! Greetings from Ontario, BTW!