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Don't know how to come out, help???

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by 4alex6, Jul 7, 2011.

  1. 4alex6

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    I've been trying to figure out how I can come out and tell my friends that I am bisexual. I have already told a few of my close friends but I don't know how to tell my other friends. I feel like the best way to come out is on Facebook but I don't know what to post on my wall or what to send in my messages to my other friends. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do??? :confused::help:
     
  2. Lucas16

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    As one closer step to fully out, i just set my FB status thing as Interested in: Men and Women, since they actually have to go to ur profile to see it :slight_smile:
     
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    Oh wow, I didn't know you could actually do that on Facebook now! (Set to men AND women). I just took it off my profile all together because I didn't know which one to set it to haha.
     
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    I've done that too(completely taken down the interested in to individuals that i'm attracted to) :thumbsup:
    Everyone else can see it though
     
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    I did that before I realized that you could put men and women. I have just changed my relationship status so far. I plan on telling people soon.
     
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    After i came out to all my close friends, i pretty much don't care about it anymore. I'm openly who i am, if someone ask me "Are you gay?" i answer, "Nop, i'm bi" Or "are you into guys?" I answer; "Nop, into both genders." And...I talk openly about it. When i see a hot guy walking about and i want to comment about it with a female friend, i do it. Yeah....Strangely, my whole classroom knows i am bisexual (the whole school, possibly), i guess after you tell a few people and become "open" about it, it goes all by itself. I recommend my strategy =P
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    ps: sorry about how my posts look like interview answers lol, it seems its much easier for me to explain what i want to say, posting like that ^^
     
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    I just sent one of my close friends a facebook message because I know that I couldn't say it to her face.
     
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    I told the school gossip (on purpose) and gave him permission to tell others. I haven't got facebook, though.
     
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    Do what YOU are most comfortable with, anything from just changing your interested in status to writing knock....knock....who's there? I'M BI!!!!

    is fine.