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what am i?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Albertal, Jul 10, 2011.

  1. Albertal

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    first of all, i have to say that my English isn't really well. sorry about that :slight_smile:

    i have been confused for such a long time
    when i was little, to be exact, when i was still an elementary student, i felt excited when i saw the underwear models(female model) on the magazine or newspaper.
    But when i was about 13, i found that i would started to noticed some sexy guys.
    even when i watched porn movies, i found those ACTORS are attractive!

    so i guess i wasn't born to be a gay.
    oh there is one thing, i had a girlfriend in elementary school(just puppy love, basically nothing happened)

    so am i bisexaul or am i gay?:confused:
     
  2. Lexington

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    Tough to say. I know I got sexually excited when I saw women in a sexual context when I was younger. But then again, my sex drive back then was pretty ramped up. I was getting horny at anything even mildly suggestive of sex, and it didn't matter if it was girls, boys, monsters, aliens or robots. :slight_smile: It may be that you simple weren't really aware that you were attracted to guys until your sex drive kicked in a bit later.

    Lex
     
  3. Ridiculous

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    How sexually attracted to women are you now? You only mention when you were a child, and I don't think that anything before puberty is really relevant.

    Your English is great by the way.
     
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    Your English doesn't sound bad at all :slight_smile: Just pay attention to what attracts you now, and allow yourself to think. Don't stress about a label.
     
  5. Owen

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    As a little boy, I used to go around kissing everyone (girls or boys) in my elementary school classes (it's not a moment I'm proud of), yet now, I am exclusively attracted to guys, so our behavior before we hit puberty isn't a good indicator of our future sexuality. Once we hit puberty and our sexuality "awakens", that's when we can get an idea of what we really are. So the question you have to ask yourself is, "Whom am I attracted to now?"
     
  6. ToTheCeilingFan

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    Your English is really good! It's reassuring to be able to label yourself, but in the end labels don't really matter. Just like who you like and fall in love with who you love. Good luck! (*hug*)
     
  7. Albertal

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    THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCHHHHH!
    i feel so much better after reading your replies.
    it does help me think deeper
    yeah! labels don't really matter
    thank you and love you.

    AL
     
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