Okay, so I know I'm gay and that the only people I can ever see myself with sexually are men and I have never really had much interest in being with women, yet every so often, I find myself looking at women more than men. Not sexually, but admiring their beauty and curious about the opposite sex in various ways, such as what it's like to be a woman and how it feels for them to be with men in a way that isn't being a gay man. So am I strange? I was just wondering if anyone else had this sort of feeling from time to time and what it means.
This is not strange infact it is almost normal... i mean before you knew you were gay... did you looked at guys as wondered what it might be for them? Sometimes i look at a woman and i start to wonder, what has she gone through to get here to now where i see her. I sometimes wonder the very same thing about everyone... Beacuse i know most people do not have it easy and had to make hard choises in life, or go through bad experiences. Because i have a phycology background (i have read up on alot of these types of books and many of them is used in universeties) i think about all of this and a whole lot more.
I don't know if you're strange (I know I am) but those thoughts seem completely normal. Let's face it, girls are attractive, cute, beautiful, and such. Curiosity about the opposite sex, even in a non-sexual manner, is parfectly normal, from what I've heard. I know I have those thoughts, and while they do complicate the "am I gay" question, there's really nothing wrong with them.
