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Nosy People with Connections

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by LazyApples, Jul 17, 2011.

  1. LazyApples

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    Location:
    Tennessee
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    I live in a rather small household where keeping secrets is difficult at best. Now, most of the time I am extremely careful (IE browsing incognito behind locked doors), however, today I very foolishly left EC up unattended for hours. So far as I can tell no one went snooping, but it made me realize just how easily I could accidentally out myself which is something I'm not ready to do yet.

    On the other hand I would like to tell someone, just not my family. There is , of course, one problem with that. My sister has spies all over my school.( She only does it because she worries.) One girl who I had considered telling(she's bi and a wonderful person) has been appointed as my keeper and would probably tell my sister who would most likely tell my parents (who are wonderful, but I can't do that to them right now). And the other person (stood up to someone who said being gay is a choice) is one of her best friends. This leaves two of my best friends one of whom has enough problems as is and it's sort of a package deal. Waiting for college isn't even an option, because my sister will be at the same school (as well as her network of spies) :help: