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Indifferent about coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Marlowe, Jul 19, 2011.

  1. Marlowe

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    I am not exactly sure what to say. I am pretty sure I am gay, something I think have known since I was at least 14 years old. Eight years later I am still in the closet. I don’t have any many negative feelings toward this anymore, and I am pretty sure that everyone who matters would accept me soon enough (though my parents might feel a bit of disappointment). The problem I face is that the more psychologically accepting I am of myself the more apathetic I have become to being gay. Now that I don’t ruminate about it, I am becoming more indifferent to telling people, if that makes any sense. It just seems like such a hassle. I know this sounds weird, but I just am not sure what to make of this.
     
  2. Lexington

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    Then don't. Seriously. If having your sexuality unknown to the world at large, and to those you know, doesn't cause you any grief, then simply don't tell anybody.

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  3. dl72

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    I agree. You don't have to say anything to anyone if you choose not too.