I am not exactly sure what to say. I am pretty sure I am gay, something I think have known since I was at least 14 years old. Eight years later I am still in the closet. I don’t have any many negative feelings toward this anymore, and I am pretty sure that everyone who matters would accept me soon enough (though my parents might feel a bit of disappointment). The problem I face is that the more psychologically accepting I am of myself the more apathetic I have become to being gay. Now that I don’t ruminate about it, I am becoming more indifferent to telling people, if that makes any sense. It just seems like such a hassle. I know this sounds weird, but I just am not sure what to make of this.
Then don't. Seriously. If having your sexuality unknown to the world at large, and to those you know, doesn't cause you any grief, then simply don't tell anybody. Lex