so I have a massive crush on this guy at my school. hes like the most perfect guy ever....well in my eyes. lately ive been hearing from my friend that he might like me, too. we've been talking a bit more lately, but im scared that he might not be gay at all. there are no tell tale signs pointing to me to his sexuality, but we all know that that doesnt always hold true to everybody. what do you guys think i should do?
the people in ur school don't kno ur gay, right? or at least that's what i get from ur out status. at least bring up the topic of homosexuality and see how he responds. make it known that you're okay with it/support anyone that way he doesn't feel the need to lie and say he's against it out of fear or anything like that.
Hmm...I like the idea of angling a conversation to homosexuality. Maybe your "Friend" just came out as a lesbian/gay. Say lesbian though, cause between two guys might make the converastion easier.
thanks, guys. but maybe ill wait a bit. we just started like really talking a week or so ago. so i dont know if bringing up that conversation would make him nervous or not. im starting to doubt him liking me, though. maybe its like a defence mechanism so i dont end up getting hurt. oh well...whatever the case. i need to concentrate on school anyway. =/
Hmmm, be very careful. There is a chance you may see things differently because that is what you want to see. I also disagree with there being 'gay' signs. Although it does give you some idea, you can never actually be sure until he tells you himself. The gay conversation idea may work, but it seems a bit mean to try and get somebody to admit they're gay. If they wanted you, or anybody else to know, then they would tell you. That's just my opinion anyway.
so i guess ill update you guys. im now almost POSITIVE hes gay. i was over at his house the other day for a project. and as i was searching for some information, i saw some of his searches, which, if i may say so myself pretty much laid it out on the table. in case any of you guys were wondering, the searches included "gay porn (can i say this on here?) etc etc." am i right to say hes gay right from this?
Sounds likely. Not many straight guys are searching for gay porn. Are you sure they were his searches? Does anyone else use that computer?
well to be the bad fruit, you could be crushed. to be the good fruit, he could really like you and might be wanting to talk to you about it
