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I like this bi guy

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by MusicIsMyBoyfriend, Nov 23, 2007.

  1. MusicIsMyBoyfriend

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    Well i like this guy who i know is bi but i'm really afraid to tell him!
    Does anyone have any advice on what i should do?
     
  2. Ty

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    I found out someone in my little circle of friends in Bi...but ive never spoken to him before haha....hes quite cute, but i'd never be able to go over and speak to him, im just not brave enough ;] so i guess im in the same situation as ya

    Has he made any indication that he likes/is interested in you? do you speak much? you should like start becoming friends before blurting that you like him...well in my opinion.
     
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    15 eh?
    Too young to drink.
    Sorry can't help you :grin:

    Lol just joking. Your best chance is to find some time alone with him (sleep over maybe) and just let suttle movements take you to where you want to go. That's always the most fun method anyways.
     
  4. MusicIsMyBoyfriend

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    Thatcrazythang we are already friends but not like good friends because i'm trying to keep him from being one and everyone i do like becomes and good friend and never likes me because of it.
    I don't think that made any sense...
     
  5. Psych!

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    Actually it does; you just don't want to be close friends 'cause you're afraid that that's all he'll see you as.
     
  6. MusicIsMyBoyfriend

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    So maybe it did make sense lol
    I have a real problem with telling people how i feel and it's really not good.
     
  7. Ty

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    It made perfect sense (unlike some of my posts =p)

    Well, does he know your Bi? perhaps a little flirting is in order? =p

    Just so he can see your interested.
     
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    The only problem is i'm the shy type!
    We're meeting up tomorrow i'll try to flirt with him but it'll probably go REALLY wrong but i'll have a go
     
  9. Ty

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    You never know untill you try =] Im quite shy myself so yeah...i know how you feel hehe, but atleast you can actually approach him and start a conversation and not just like...stare! your a step above me :wink: keep us informed of how it goes, please =]
     
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    Don't worry i'll keep you posted!
     
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    Just watch out, he may not like being flirted with unless he likes you that way. I've had friends that I've been happy that are gay/bi but when they start hitting on me I don't like it.
     
  12. Ty

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    Just don't be terribly obvious when flirting...just like slight little things and see how he reacts.
     
  13. Ilayis

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    take it slow
     
  14. joeyconnick

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    So how did it go?

    And you don't look very shy in your avatar... if that's you, of course. But yeah, just pretend you are someone non-shy.