I've been a member on empty closets for a few weeks now. I've kept to the anonymous forum so far, but I thought I'd be brave and say "hi" to you all today. My name is Dan and I'm a 31 year guy who is just a little confused. In my "normal day-to-day" life I consider myself straight.... I've been in several very satisfying relationships with women over the past 10 years....check out women...actively pursue women for relationships. My online sex life is completely different though. I really enjoy cyber sex and chatting with gay men. I find it very thrilling to labeled homosexual online when chatting online. My online persona is completely alien to my real world persona, which messes with my mind. It's almost like I'm a completely different person. So yeah that's me. Crazy.