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My first encounter

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by 8008l3SS, Sep 2, 2011.

  1. 8008l3SS

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    Hey guys.. okay can u guys tell me if this is one of those "encounters" I might have missed with a guy.. So I enrolled to this summer school program and the moment I walked in I saw this guy that stared at me from time to time.. So one day I caught him staring at me so I looked at him and smiled.. he too smiled. Those are encounters that happen frequently. Another times when I'm going to the classroom and I see him walking down the stairs looking straight at me and vice versa.. I have to admit I was still shy.. but eventually I manned up and talked to him.. I found out his name was aren, soo that night I used my ninja skills and via facebook I found him and saw he was married to this girl, but skeptical since after all he is still in high school. So the next day I asked him if he his in a relationship and he said no. I was happy so and with some few moves I got his #. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: After that I don't know what happened to me.. I stopped talking to him and we just gave glances at each other.. I DIDN'T EVEN SAY GOOD BYE TO HIM ON THE LAST DAY. :frowning2:

    I have always wanted to ask him one question.. Why do you stare at me?...

    There you go readers.. Let your opinions shoot! :grin:
     
  2. Noir

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    Aww, it really does sound like he might kinda like you "that way," heh!~ *nudges* Of course I can't know for sure--I wasn't there and I can't read minds. But maybe that thing about being in high school and being "married" is just him and someone else kidding around for a laugh (some of my friends do that). I mean, who's seriously in high school, married, and no one knows about it? And you might have to get to know him a little better, but it might be about an old gf.

    But what exactly happened that you got to a rocky spot in the encounter? Specifically what happened?

    And if you wanna ask him why he stares at you, just do eet! >< As my opinion, which you of course are under no obligation to take. Good luck!
     
  3. 8008l3SS

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    aha thanks for the help noir :slight_smile:
    i dont know why i just stopped talking to him.. but maybe because it was my first time and i got réally shy and kind of insecure... i mean i know im not ugly or hot just average but he is muscular like me and his eyes mannn id feel like his hypnotising me and i feel like my gayness coming out LOL

    im still scared... if only i knew à Friend like u noir.... aha i'd ask u to ask him if hé was gay through texting that way hé wouldnt know it was me :slight_smile: