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My Dilema

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JaeScheisse, Sep 3, 2011.

  1. JaeScheisse

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    Hey guys, recently broke up with my online boyfriend. Reason being that I told him I wasn't comfortable with doing anything sexual etc. Taking my top off (sue me for being prude). So I'm thinking.. if he broke up with me because of that, he's not worth dating? I've been going everywhere on the internet and it seems like guys asking to look and girls givin' in is the norm. Any thoughts about this..? Oh yes and other details
    : met him on League of Legends
    he's 21, im 16 this october.
    i still think about him...
    he lives in LA, I'm in australia, we talked about meeting halfway
     
  2. Mercy

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    DASNGEROUS !!! dont even think about doing it he could be a pedophile for all we know
     
  3. Undecided John

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    Quoting the great Admiral Ackbar, I would say that "It's a trap!!!"
    I mean, in one hand, long distance relationships are tough, off course, but, then, exactly because of that, it should be based on a lot more than just sexual interest, since it (sexual desire) will be the most difficult to satisfy.
     
  4. JaeScheisse

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    Thanks guys
     
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    Oh, be very very careful with that kindof stuff. Please ...
     
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    Be verrrrry verrrrry careful. That has 'dodgy' written all over it. Could be a paedophile, one of those people who want to steal your identity, or someone who wants to steal your vast collection of school books. But jokes aside, it's a trap.
     
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    One of my best friends 'dated' a guy from another state via xbox live, and he ended up breaking into her facebook account, black mailing her, and causing her a lot of grief. We found out not too long ago that he wasn't even real. This guy made a fake name, used fake pictures, everything. Hes a creeper.
    Id be careful. Sure, he may not be a psycho, but if he broke up with you stricly because you refused to show him your boobs.. id say he's a bit sketchy.