any coming out organizations in mpls/st paul? i have found only one, but i think it is only for college students....
Check out the HIM program in downtown Mpls. It is part of the red door clinic and is located by the metrodome (sorta) they have a free group therapy type thing that is for adults working at coming out and many of the men that join are married.
It could be that the college one would let you attend if you were into that. When I attended our local university's group, we sometimes had Grade 11 and 12 students show up. It turns out there's often actually not that much difference between a 1st or 2nd year university student and someone in Grades 11 or 12. It's funny because initially I used to view 1st years as totally different from Grade 12s but really, if you think about it, you graduate from high school in June and 2 or 3 months later, you're a 1st year university student (if you go to university). So yeah... not necessarily a huge difference there.
Call the college one and ask them if they know of any other resources/groups for people your age. I bet they would know!