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Am I attractive?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Fiender, Nov 28, 2007.

  1. Fiender

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    This is really a general question, but one I do not know the answer to. Do you think I'm attractive?

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  2. SweetChaos

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    I think your attractive. However, I also think you have very feminine features. Which isnt a bad thing.
     
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    You look good. =]
     
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    Yes, I do.
     
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    Since you were directed here from ###, I will yield the floor to our younger colleagues on the question you posed.

    Is there an underlying reason behind that question?

    Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you heard from someone that you weren't there type, or whatever, there is bound to be someone out there that would say that you are their type.

    It doesn't appear that you are seeking attention, rather that you are asking honestly about your appearance. Mental health encourages physical health, and you are more at risk for STI (sexually transmitted infections), including HIV, if you suffer from low self-esteem.
     
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    Yes - you are attractive.....
     
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    It's actually hard to tell from your avatar photo but from your profile one, I'd say yes.

    But really it's not ultimately whether others find you attractive, it's whether you find yourself attractive.

    So yes, the more interesting questions are "why do you want to know?" and "why don't you know the answer to your question?"
     
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    It's not really for me to say but I would just say that I would be proud and happy to have a son that looked like you. From your (rather dark) photo you have a nice sensitive face, which to me, seems very attractive.

    I'm not just saying that, if I didn't think you looked nice I would have just kept schtum. :dry:
     
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    Well, the reason I am asking is simply curiosity. I cannot judge myself because I am so used to 'me' that it is bland.
     
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    ^ Fair enough.

    I'd say you were attractive. I prefer to see someone smile though - you look a little 'mournful' in your pictures.

    But ultimately, it will be someone liking you for you, and not for your looks, that will be really important. And that person will think you look amazing! And you'll never believe them! But that's what they'll see!
     
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    Yer u r

    It depends on different people, some like this type some like that type. I have seen liek many hot guys, and have to admit they are attractive but other friends say they arent, and opposite

    And I dont car eif a guy is hawt or sezy or watever as long as they are attrative
     
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    <3 Lovely <3
     
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    Anybody can look attractive in a dark picture. The darkness hides asymmetry, or, in other words, hides imperfections. If you want real answers, get a better picture. But even then, I doubt people would want to sound rude and say "You're ugly."
     
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    There are people out there like that.

    Also hes got a clearer picture in his profile.
     
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    There is a picture in his public profile that offers more insight Lava421.

    Fiender why is it that you are curious? Surely, someone in your real-life setting should have quashed any feelings of unattractiveness. You are a handsome young man.

    As Jim1454 said though, looks and personality both play apart in the attractiveness of a person. Confidence, so long as it doesn't become arrogance, goes along way. You shouldn't be asking if you are attractive, you should be confident that you are attractive.
     
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    Sorry for the off-topic, but that reminded me of part of a Gilbert and Sullivan lyric...
    "she may very well pass for forty three, in the dusk with the light behind her"

    Seriously though, the profile pic looks good to me. :slight_smile:
     
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    You look very attractive. Just need to add a smile to that pic and you will light up the place.