so i've been friends with this girl for over two years now. and i just want to just come out and say it ''im gay''. there are no religious barriers or anything but i havent explored her opinions on lgbt yet. so should i ask her her feelings on lgbt people or just tell her? i sit right next to her in two classes so i dont want to make a mistake....
How much do you trust this friend? Are you out to anyone else? If you can trust her to keep your secret, if in fact it is a secret, then I say go for it! If she was truly homophobic then you would have already known so in the two years you have known her. If she hasn't said much it just means that she either is pro, she doesn't care or she hasn't even though about it. If that’s the case then your two year relationship will most likely win