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Do you ever just need a hug?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by greatfulyslow, Sep 28, 2011.

  1. greatfulyslow

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    Do you ever feel like you just need a hug? I've felt like that all day today! Hugs create a real physical connection with someone!I don't know I feel like I'm just missing something like there is a void in my life and today I just really felt it ... :eusa_doh:
     
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    I can relate to needing a hug. I love hugs lol.
     
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    (*hug*) I know it isn't much, but I hope it helps!
     
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    Oh yes....... (*hug*) to you
     
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    I used to feel kind of uncomfortable hugging people when I was younger because I was shy. As I have grown I have come to appreciate the fact that hugs are pretty close to the most amazing thing on the planet.
     
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    i am a huge fan of hugs! (&&&)
     
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    yes, i don't get hugged enough. i actually need someone to cry to. life is hard.
     
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    Yeah, for sure. I think there are times when everyone needs a hug whether or not they'll admit that. :slight_smile:
     
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    YES! I hugs...yes...i need hugs...and i'd gladly give them as well...(&&&)(*hug*)
     
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    Hugs are all kinds of important!

    (&&&)

    (*hug*)
     
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    aw poor you *sends hug*(*hug*)
     
  12. Mercy

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    I purpose a hug a thon
    any one in ?
     
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    I generally dislike them. Why? Because I think it's such an unnatural way to position one's body. Oh, and they remind me of Facehuggers from the Alien trilogy. Yeah, it's pretty twisted that I related the two somehow.

    But when I'm down, they're nice because it's almost as though they have healing properties. The terrible part, though, is that I usually never get them even then.
     
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    I want a lover's hug. With a smooch at the end.
     
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    I could totally use a good cuddle, it seems like it's been forever since I've been physically intimate with someone.

    I wonder what kind of reactions I'd get if I went into the lesbian bar with a "FREE CUDDLES" tee-shirt on this Saturday night. :grin:
     
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    Awww, have an e-hug. It's the best I got. xD (*hug*)

    It's been years (probably a decade) since I've had a real "I care about you" hug. The closest thing I've had to that recently was a "bro-hug/borderline real hug/side hug" from one of my favorite voice actors at an anime convention earlier this year. :lol:
     
  17. Mercy

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    @ maveric Is so love th be the one to cuddle you
     
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    All the time =/ Warm clothes help a lot though.
     
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    i get that feeling a lot especially with been in a long distance relationship and not been able to get hugs from my gf when i need/want them.
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