I have been with this guy for a while and even though when we have sex it is great, I just cannot have an orgasm, and I NEVER have been able to. Is it because I’m worried about not pleasuring him, or is it something with me? Even when we do other things, I still cannot orgasm. I get horny, but no matter how long we go, or how much we pleasure each other I just can’t. I don’t want him to think that it is him, because I am VERY sexually attracted to him. Another issue that I have is as I get more and more horny, I get really tight. So if we do other things and save the sex until the end, it makes it difficult. His birthday is this weekend and I want to make it a good one So whatever help I can get is greatly appreciated!