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Need some advice

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lizzy95, Oct 14, 2011.

  1. lizzy95

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    Location:
    Colorado
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    I have been with this guy for a while and even though when we have sex it is great, I just cannot have an orgasm, and I NEVER have been able to. Is it because I’m worried about not pleasuring him, or is it something with me?

    Even when we do other things, I still cannot orgasm. I get horny, but no matter how long we go, or how much we pleasure each other I just can’t. I don’t want him to think that it is him, because I am VERY sexually attracted to him.

    Another issue that I have is as I get more and more horny, I get really tight. So if we do other things and save the sex until the end, it makes it difficult.


    His birthday is this weekend and I want to make it a good one :wink: So whatever help I can get is greatly appreciated!