Hello... just as the title says, how do you deal with a guy that really likes you, and won't leave you alone when you are gay? He's a fucking perv, so if I say I'm a lesbian, he'll just get something kinky off of it. I don't like him, I am not attracted to him - and I just want him, and his ex-gf ( yeah, he has his ex coming up to me and telling me 'what a great guy he is' ) to leave me alone? :dry:
"I'm a lesbian. Not the straight-porn, hot-chick-on-hot-chick-getting-off-on-straight-guys-watching-and-joining-in lesbian. But an actual, honest-to-God, only-interested-in-other-women,-which-you-aren't lesbian." And if his ex-girlfriend think he's such a great guy, why is she his EX-girlfriend? Lex
That's a good question. They are not together anymore, but are still 'sleeping together' But yeah... I was thinking about just telling him that, but I work with him, and work does not know I'm a lesbian. And honestly, if I told him that, he'd just get a hard on and ask for a creepy 3-way... he's the biggest grossest perv I have ever met. If I tell him I am a lesbian, then I am out at work, and I don't know if I am ready for that yet... There is one other girl who is Lesbian who I work with, and I have seen how hard one of the managers treats her...
what i would do is very quietly say to him so no-one else hears you and explain in very simple terms that your not interested in him ,without being rude or anything,and tell him not to bother you no more or you will make a complaint at work about workplace sexual harrasement,and see how fast he backs off then,since this is happening at your workplace as you stated,then you have no reason to let anyone know your true sexual orientation,thats none of their business-sexual harrassment issues at work is something no-one wants on their employee records,good luck my canadian sister.
Then I'd say fall back on the "Honestly, I have no interest in you. Sorry." And leave it at that. Lex
Thanks guys! He just had his ex girlfriend message me again, and I ignored it. He won't come up to me at work anymore, but still tries over the internet. I have him blocked on MSN, and deleted off Facebook. That's why he is using his ex to contact me now. If he comes up to me at work, I will threaten to report him for sexual harassment. Thanks!
