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ugh, is this bad?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by addie88, Nov 10, 2011.

  1. addie88

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    i've been wanting a girlfriend really badly lately...i've never had one, and i'm just...romantically lonely. lol. i know four lesbians at my school, but i'm not really friends with any of them- more like acquaintances.

    so one of them happens to be really attractive. like...really. attractive. but again, i don't really ever talk to her. is it bad that i am now aiming to befriend her solely because i think she's hot and also in the hopes of maybe-possibly-probably-not-but-worth-a-shot dating her? :grin:
     
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    Well, how would you know you want to date her if you don't know much about her? You need to be someone's friend, at least a little, before you can date, that way you know wither or not you have anything in common...

    I'm kind of lonely romatically to, so I totally get it
     
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    Go for it! It's not bad. I would find it kind of flattering. :slight_smile: