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Age difference and my crush on my nail lady

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jessica816, Nov 11, 2011.

  1. Jessica816

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    Age difference has never been a problem for me...Yet lately I've been scared of rejection. A little back story might help explain my question. There is this woman who ive had a crush on for awhile now, she does my nails and from the moment I seen her, I knew I liked her and wanted to get to know her better..She's older then me and not by a few years either, there's a pretty big age differnce between us. For some reason I have a issue with just asking her out for a drink or dinner. I can't tell if when we talk if she's just being friendly or if she likes me. She has asked me if I was single or had someone, asked me what I liked to do on my days off from work, if I like to go to the bar and if so what I liked to drink...I'm new to all this since I've only been out a little over a year. She's always happy to see me come thru the door, and always makes sure to do my nails...Help?! Any advice?!
     
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    Firstly make sure she's not just showing good customer service... my nail guy is like that, but he's a guy, gay, and in a long term relationship... just sayin
     
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    See that's what I'm worried about, that she's just showing good customer service...I guess the only way for me to find out is for me to "bite the bullet"
     
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    Try bringing up topics of conversation that might give you clues as to how she may feel about LGBT issues or things like that. Sometimes a person's opinion can reveal a LOT about themselves, although sometimes you also run the risk of someone telling you what they think you want to hear, so be careful!
     
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    I love sitting there having these conversations with her, there sweet and they get my heart racing. I'm out going and over the top, until I sit down in the chair with her and everything that I talked myself into telling her sounds silly and makes no sense..Never have I experienced something like this