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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by sweetband, Nov 14, 2011.

  1. sweetband

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    How do you know if you are bisexual? What I mean by that is I can flirt with girls but it won't go anywhere pass that, and I know that for sure. Now would that make me bi? Thats the one thing I'm confused about.
     
  2. Ianthe

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    If you are not going any further than flirting, then it would not really make sense for you to identify as bisexual.

    Please don't flirt with the lesbians unless you mean it. It hurts.

    However, if you have feelings for girls and you are just saying that it couldn't go beyond flirting because you are in denial, then you could be bisexual.
     
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    I agree I think it depends on you feelings towards it going further, if you would like it to go further but wouldnt let it then you are probably bi, if you just flirt in a kind of fun friendly way then I wouldnt say it makes you bi.