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what do i do about liking her or not?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lucas52, Nov 18, 2011.

  1. lucas52

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    So i have this best friend that i see at school everyday that knows everything about me.
    I talk to her everyday. and in the morning its like we are just friends but in the afternoon i act like i like her (by the way i look at her and tease her and try to get closer to her). All of our friends think i like her. and she said she would kiss me back if i liked her and kissed her. and i have almost kissed her a few times. But the things that are the downside of that are i don't know if i like her or not, she isn't allowed to date, and the one thing that is like a punch in the stomach is that she said that she might like my best friend sam. I don't know if i like her or not but should i tell her, not tell her, do nothing about it , or just kiss her and see was happens?
     
  2. diniesaur

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    I don't know much about things like this, but the way you described how her liking Sam as like a punch in the stomach makes me think you have at least some feelings about her.
     
  3. orlaith

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    I agree...the punch in the stomach feeling tells it all! Talk to her and see what happens :slight_smile: good luck!
     
  4. lucas52

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    but what do I do about her not being able to date?
     
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    Hi. Do you know why she isn't able to date? Do her parents disapprove of her dating at our age (I'm 13 as well), or is there another reason. If there is a logical reason that she is allowed to date, such as age, then you could wait. Also, ask if they would be against you going out in a group, as that is what a lot of kids my age are doing. But no matter what you do, I would NOT advise for you two to go out behind her parents backs', because if they somehow found out, that would be bad.
    Hope all goes well!
     
  6. lucas52

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    I think its because she has a overprotective dad and i can wait for her because she isn't allowed to date till she is 18. And if we went out in a group her father would not let her go with us unless there was a parent around at all times watching us.