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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Charni, Nov 22, 2011.

  1. Charni

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    I am a cross dresser. I want to talk to other cross dressers, are there any guys out there who like to wear any girl's clothes for any reason?
     
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    OK, I'm going to put my hand up and admit that I'm also a cross dresser. I was planning to put my own post up about it soon once I'd got the courage. It's ridiculous that even in a place like this I'm still nervous about admitting it, but this seemed like a good opportunity to do so.
     
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    I do, though I'll admit that there are very very few feminine clothes in my possession. Wearing them makes me feel happy about myself, and when I feel better about myself I am less anxious. I don't know if I wear them for the same purpose you do, I wear them because I feel like a girl on the inside. Currently little things like wearing makeup and wearing clothes are all that keep me from getting too depressed.

    So you aren't alone :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes Some Fellow Cross Dressers!!! I Isn"t Alone!!!
     
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    So, now that you've outed me, is there anything you wanted to talk about?
     
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    So what do you like about the clothes? You don't have to answer anything.
     
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    I'm not really sure, I guess they feel nicer, 'sexier' than guys clothes. What do you like about it?

    I've never really spoken to anybody else about this properly before.
     
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    I like two things. I like how it makes me feel "girly" (but I like being a guy) and the fabrics in the clothes feel so much better!
     
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    Yeah, I guess that's similar to me, I'm pretty certain I don't want to become a woman or anything like that, I quite like the fact that I can switch between genders (and apparently look quite good as either). I think the term genderfuck might be one I'll adopt for myself.
     
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    I think that's the same with me. I enjoy it but too much and it becomes less "fun".
     
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    I guess like a lot of things it loses the novelty factor if you do it too much.

    You sound like you're remarkably comfortable with it to have told your parents and girlfriend, and you sound incredibly lucky to have such an understanding girlfriend, even if your parents aren't so keen. I've barely told anyone about it yet, but lately I've been thinking I should be more open about it as I don't think anyone I know would react badly, as they didn't mind when I came out as gay. Especially as I've already dressed up several times for fancy dress. We'll see.
     
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    I am definitly not comfortable with it! It was very hard to tell them. I am ok with you being a cross dresser so we should be friends!
     
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    Well, I've always know I liked guys, but for a while I tried to be straight, I even got married .... to a ... woman :eek:

    Long story short, she got me into cross dressing ..... AND I liked it. (!)

    I'd like to chat more about it, but I'm getting ready to go out for the night. I'll chat you up later.
     
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    Another one! Yay! The fabrics are so much softer hey?

    Enjoy your night out!
     
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    Maybe comfortable was the wrong way to put it, but the fact that you've told them is still an incredibly brave thing to do, seriously well done for doing that.

    OK, consider yourself befriended. Thanks :icon_bigg
     
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    Thanks for accepting! I need a friend who likes girl's clothes.
     
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    I don't really talk to anybody about this, so I guess I could do with a friend to talk to as well.

    Are there any kinds or styles of clothes you've found you particularly like? I tend to prefer more glamourous, stylish clothes, but I've not got a huge range yet.
     
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    My girlfriend only has modest clothes as she goes for comfort rather than style and I think I'll go with comfort because I know I like it.
     
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    check the advice posts, there's a straight self described hot guy that is a cross dresser in hiding.
     
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    I have and he joined in May this year, he was on here last in May and he has only posted once.