crushin on 2 people at the same time.... what's a bi girl to do? advice please!

Hi all,
this may get kinda long but I am wondering if anyone has been here before? i realized i am bi after 2 years of thinking i was a lesbian and now i am crushing on both a guy and a girl.. the girl is someone i have known for awhile and she is the main person who made me realize i wasn't straight... she lives in wisconsin and we have been friends on and off for awhile and i find myself thinking about her and i used to think of her before i went to bed- haven't done that lately, but i used to. she knows i am gay but that i'm not bi- and she doesn't know that i have liked her for soo freaken long- it has been about 3 years or so...

then there is J-who i work with. he is adorable, and gives me butterflies when i see him and it can get hard at work cause my kids told him i liked him last year and my boss tried to set us up last year but i was taking time for myself after and didn't do anything... he is religious and my concern about that is i don't know how accepting he would be if he knew i was bi and we both liked each other...i have talked to him some, but not much and i get the feeling he likes me too.. i find him smiling at me and he makes excuses to talk to me sometimes and i just get the feeling we both like each other. it is awkward when we run into each other sometimes and i do catch him staring at me and it seems like he makes a point of coming around where i am at the same time each day...

so what i am wondering i guess is, has this happened to anyone before and what advice could you give me? i like both of them and as far as i know, they don't know... i have never had 2 crushes before and just wondering what now?

 

I see what you are saying... we both work at the same school and he comes and takes my kids to computer lab and last year the kids told him i liked him- they had him confused with someone i did like... so this year i downplay when the kids ask me and it's been this year that i realized i have a crush on him and would like to talk to him but a few of the people who tried to help my boss set us up are friends of his and i feel weird eating lunch with all of them and want the chance to talk to him alone and not without an audience...