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I'm gay

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Mr.Pushover, Nov 26, 2011.

  1. Mr.Pushover

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    It took me this long to find myself, but I know it's true now. I will always be an open minded person, but honestly, I'm gay. I like guys. bingo. bazoop. that's it. (!)
     
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    Congrats on coming out and saying that. It is the first step. I can now say I am Gay as well. I thought I may be bisexual, but thinking about it carefully, I realize I am gay. I can't deny it or hide from it. It is what it is, and people will just have to deal with it.
     
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    Good for you for coming out and saying that. It takes a lot to come out and the first steps are always the hardest.
     
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    congratulations. (*hug*) we're here and we're queer. :thumbsup:
     
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    congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    What a great thing to be able to come out and say it and own it and feel it. This is the start of being in better touch with yourself, which will help you feel closer to others as well. Congratulations!
     
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    Congratulations on coming out.

    Keep going from strength to strength! :thumbsup:
     
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    Well, there you go. :thumbsup:
     
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    Congratulations for coming out to yourself! :eusa_clap
     
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    I think the part on understand that your gay is the hardest and longest step filled with denial and self-loathing (I've always liked guys since 12)
     
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    Congratulations!

    Accepting yourself is probably the most difficult, so I'm always happy to see others who have accomplished that. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks everyone for the nice words you've given me :slight_smile:
     
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    Well done! :grin: