Is it bad thing to be in a closet? Like not to tell anyone your out unless you want a a non straight relationship or sex. Is it a bad thing to thing for having relations with a guy or transexual to just think about the sex for them? I know they look for a relationship, but that is just my sexual dream tho. ugh sooo confused. I like penis, and I like transexuals, guys and girls. Ughhh I don't if I want a relationship with them yet tho
I am a cross dresser and I am not going to tell anybody else about it, it's a good idea to keep it to yourself unless you are 100% sure you want to know how they will react and 100% sure you want to tell them.
Dark side? Bro I don't take it as the dark side. I need to experiment with stuff. I'm still a virgin and all.
Well, I'm out and I am not currently in a relationship. So you can be out but not ready to have a relationship with them. Being in the closet long term is a bad thing, but if you are still unsure of your sexuality then I would wait until you are more comfortable with that until you come out. The only reason that I say that is because some people will try to say that you are in a phase and try to talk you out of it. I hope that makes sense.... Edit: That is what I was trying to say, thanks James H.
There's nothing wrong with being gay/bi. There's nothing wrong with being closeted, especially at your age. However, sooner or later you are gonna want to talk to someone about these feelings you are having. Also, as far as your attraction to transsexuals goes... This video might be relevant to your interests. [YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4[/YOUTUBE] "Shemale" porn as it commonly goes by is about as common of a heterosexual male fantasy as they come. Not to imply you are heterosexual, I believe most people are bisexual to some extent at least, and you seem interested in sex with men. Good luck (*hug*) Edit: If you don't wanna watch that whole long video at least start it 8 minutes in and listen to that part.