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A guy that I am dating

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by theatergeek101, Dec 19, 2011.

  1. Woo HOO! I'm dating someone!!!! He is a very attractive dude, with a freaken awesome personality. So heres my question for you guys. Him and I live two states over, I live in the CT and he lives in PENN. He can drive, but I can't until mid february. He has a car, and i do to, but I can't drive it lmao. Well, its almost Christmas and he is heading off to see his grandparents. I really really want to be with him in person. I mean we have a closeted relationship. I know my parents wouldn't care that much, maybe, nah, they probably go crazy, and his parents, I have no idea haha, but I really want to see him. I mean we have February Vacation, but I mean what excuse can I say? I mean we talk everynight, but how do we bring out to our parents. He is willing to come visit, but i mean, I don't know what to say to the parents. "Oh yeah, I met him online, he's just a friend" they be like, bullshit and wouldn't agree. lmao. I mean, :icon_redf if he comes up, its not gonna be a hey type scenario. Things will happen that night hahahaha. So yeah, any advice?
     
  2. Artemicion

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    No offense, but I'd say HOLD YOUR HORSES. Isn't this going a little bit fast :confused:? But I can't really give much advice from the information you've given. I have no idea how old the guy you're dating is...and if he does come over you're literally asking for trouble onto yourself. Maybe meet at a public place? But even still, best advice is wait for your February Vacation...

    Also, I'm guessing you're falling head over heels for this guy when you've posted this...so I will assume that the thinking process has been somewhat impaired...

    Bleh, I hope that helps, although I doubt the stuff I wrote is the stuff you wanted to hear.
     
  3. TroubledRyan

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    You need to make sure the guy is legit, then talk to your parents.

    I'm not saying he won't come down, but be positive before jumping to asumptions :slight_smile:.

    I really do hope it works out for the best to you though!
     
  4. Nah. Hes 17. I mean ill just say he is just a friend.