Today at school i met this guy.I found out he was Bi so i thought id ask him out and i did and he said yes. But now I dont know what i should do?i mean should i take him ojut somewhere im so confused :$
I don't mean to... rain on your parade, or whatever. But, you met him today, and asked him out... today? Or was it under the pretense of... just hooking up as friends? If the former, that's moving a bit fast, although still good for you. If the latter, then don't worry about it so much! On my original train of thought though, do you know him well? Or anything? If not, you should talk to him first! You can go out places like the movies and the mall or out to dinner/lunch or something, but don't think you have to live up to predefined standards of dating - just go at your own pace and be yourself, do what you like to do.
Basically you asked a guy out that you know nothing about.. Oh wait, your 13. Have fun? Relationships have lost their meaning.
Well the way he wrote it is like this. "Today at school i met this guy.I found out he was Bi so i thought id ask him out and i did and he said yes. But now I dont know what i should do?i mean should i take him ojut somewhere im so confused :$" So I'm pretty sure its dating.
Lol, guys, look, it's 21st century now, is the other guy 13 years old too? Well, for young daters liek you, you can go walking along the river, you can go buy ice creams, etc. The first day for any ages is simeple like that, especially you dont know him well, then you can learn bout him more, rather than go watch movie, and all you do is just to look at the screen But the thing is transportation, you could fidn some where near both your houses, can walk their, biking i guess, or adults who can take you guys Dont go to strange places, just stay safe
Spiky put it well. Just don't do anything to serious, and be open to possibility, but keep in mind that it might not work out, and don't get too sad if it doesn't. Also, don't let him pressure you into doing anything you aren't comfortable doing, no matter how little he may make it out to be.
When I was 13, Going out was dating. So to answer your question yes you should take him out somewhere if you are dating. The movies? The Park? Get to know him more ...get your first kiss...hehehe On a different note.. Why is everyone on EC hooking up but me?
If this is your first "date" I can imagine the excitement that's rushing through you. At 13, just try and become friends and find about about each other. You've both got years ahead of you and "things" will happen naturally. There's no timetable to follow. In a way, you'll both know what's right. Just act normal and enjoy each other's company. Don't rush and don't think there's any particular way you need to act. Be you!!!
Good for you! My only advice: take it slow. Especially at our age, people are very cautious about gay relationships and it's best to build a strong relationship by taking it slow, as it may be put under some pressure. Also, as you only just found out he's bi, he is probs not ready to come out totally yet or commit to a relationship, so if that is the case, don't let it get you down, (as it did me!) Just give it time. Act like you want to be his friend: before I met my boyfriend, I ruined a relationship with a girl because I jumped in too fast and put her under pressure (without really realising it!) PM me if you want to chat. Good luck!
