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I found out that my crush wasn't bi or gay :(

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Menaki-Neko, Dec 30, 2011.

  1. Menaki-Neko

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    I've had a major crush on this boy for at least a month, but I just figured out that he's straight. Sigh.
     
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    :frowning2: there are other fish in the sea. I'm sorry though!
     
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    Don't worry too much over it. You'll be over your crush faster this way!
     
  5. stupidIvan

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    I know that feel. :::: ( But there are Foxywolf said, there are other fish in the sea! It'll be fine, don't let it get to you.
     
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    I'm sorry.. want some applesauce?
     
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    I know how you feel. It sucks. But in time, you'll get over it and find a new crush who hopefully is either homosexual or bisexual.

    Good Luck.
     
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    I don't really like applesauce...
     
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    This is something most of us go through. Even the straight people end up falling for somebody who is "unavailable" - their crush is married, or taken, or not interested in them, or (yes) gay. :slight_smile: Sucks but there it is. Go ahead and pound the pillows, cry, and listen to some crappy music if you've gotta, then get out there and find somebody who IS interested in you. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    ^^^^ what this dude said.
     
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    I've been there before and it sucks. There are always other fish in the city.
     
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    As everyone else said, straight crushes always suck. They never get any easier to handle, and it's always a letdown. I found that the best way to get over them is to just find someone who isn't, and crush on them.
     
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    Sorry to hear it. :icon_sad: But as is being said, there are plenty others out there. And finding someone who's interested in you, too, is even more fun, no matter how big the crush! :slight_smile:

    I prescribe a night of sad country and bluegrass songs, followed by a moderate amount of playful online flirting.
     
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    Uh. Im in the same boat. Im crushing on one of my best friends currently and she's straighter than a ruler. It sucks but cheer up, there are pleanty of gay/bi people, you just have to look a little harder. :icon_wink
     
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    Sorry to hear that. You will find someone that is right for you.
     
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    c'est la vie