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how will i tell my best friend am gay?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by hakeem_uk, May 31, 2006.

  1. hakeem_uk

    hakeem_uk Guest

    hi

    today i had my best friend over we had a good time playing and chatting.
    but around the time he was going i wanted to tell him am gay but for some reason i cant say it when he was in my room.

    can any of you help me?
     
  2. Bobby

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    Dude I had the same problem. I just had to say it without thinking.
     
  3. Brandon

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    Well this is how I'll start it. Plus this is starting to give me good ideas on a story I wanted to write in my Coming Out Stories.

    Ask him simple questions, like

    "Are you my friend, I want to say something, but I'm afraid you'll get mad"

    If he goes on and says he won't be mad then just tell him straight out.

    That's the only way to start off this coming out to your best friend. Plus if he's a best friend then he'll accept you.
     
  4. Brandon

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    Oh yeah this sometimes works and sometimes it doesn't. Just give it a shot.
     
  5. hakeem_uk

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    i well try today at some point