So I've been thinking about anal sex (I've been thinking only, I don't plan on doing it anytime soon), and I feel like I'd be a bottom. I know I can't be sure as I've never done anything, but it's what seems 'right'. Anyway, I've been pretty nervous as to how it's gonna work. Like, you can never be clean enough, right? And what if... you have an accident? How do you avoid all the filthy stuff? Do you have to prepare with anticipation? Does this mean that clean spontaneous sex won't be possible? Thanks for your answers :icon_redf.
If you plan ahead you can clean out that area with an enema. But if its spontaneous just give him a warning if you feel you might have an accident. Baby wipes also help keep it semi-clean. So when you feel the time is right just be careful and take your time.