hey guys. So if you guys have read my other post you will know my moms bf has moved in and i felt awkward. Okay so that happened and i kind of got over it. Anyways, when i first found out and everything i was angry so out of anger i posted on my university roommate finder. I got an email from a guy and asked me if i was still interested. I didn't know what to say after, but i ended up saying yes.. Okay so today we went looking for places and found a good place good price. Thing is i haven't told my mom. This has been bugging me the whole time i was looking for a place. I feel like she is going to be sad and upset. Idk what to do. I want to move out but because it seems like an awesome idea. and to get away from this situation. However, i want to let my mom know that i still love her and I'm not mad. Only that its something I've been wanting to do.. Still its this bugging feeling i hate.. so what do you guys suggest i tell her? any advice is greatly appreciated
"Mom, I'm 19 now, and I think it would be a good idea for me to try living on my own. I just want to be a little more independent." Just don't mention that you were mad about her boyfriend moving in. If she asks, tell her the truth--you were uncomfortable at first, but you got over it, and that's not why you are moving out now.