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after many years im questioning

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by punkrockerinc, Jan 17, 2012.

  1. punkrockerinc

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    This is probably an odd topic, but I don't really know where to go to. For many years now, I have been a very out and proud gay man, but in recent months I have been questioning my oreintation(I know i spelled that wrong). In no way am I straight, I find guys emensly attractive, but I have been finding women more attractive. I guess what my question is, does anyone have any ideas on how to figure out/find out if my attractiveness to women is justified without seeming like im being an A-hole? Like I said this is probably an odd topic but any advice would be most apretiated. :help: :confused:
     
  2. TheEdend

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    Not really sure what you mean by this. What do you mean by justified and why would you look like an asshole for feeling attracted to some girls?
     
  3. cscipio

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    Do you mean seeking a relationship or short-term fling with a woman just to see if things work?
     
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    Personally I find it hard to believe anybody can be 100% one way or the other. Love is love, just let it be, man.
     
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    I'm gay and love older men... with facial hair... and hairy chests! :grin: But there's something about super hot lesbians that raises my temperature. I find it funny, but I don't take it serious at all. Just do life and what happens happens. Not a big deal! :slight_smile: