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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Dancingqueen18, Jan 24, 2012.

  1. Dancingqueen18

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    I was in the car with my mother. I blurted out that I was Bi-sexual. I was questioning it but for some reason, then sounded like the right time to do it. She said that is fine. But I feel really upset and unsure and regretful. I shouldn't have said that. It wasn't the right time for me. I regret it so much. I don't know what I should do. I feel very uncomfortable. I need help or support. What should I do?

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    Please can someone give me advice? i am freaking out. I regret what I said so much. I need to know how to fix it.
     
  2. Hana Solo

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    It sounds like she took it well, which is good. If the circumstances were good and the reaction was good, then its better she knows. It doesn't sound like there's a bad situation going on ouside this conversation so be glad you got it out of the way and that you don't have to hide it from her anymore :slight_smile: Its a lot easier after they know.
     
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    Yes, But I am not sure that I am bi-sexual and I am also very wound up and stressed about it. It just feels wrong, I wasn't ready.
     
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    At least she knows you're questioning. Whatever you decide, it won't come as such a big shock now.