Why Can't She Just Accept Us?

Alright, so I've been dating this girl for 2+ months now we've been best friends for more than a year before we started going out and Im totally head over heels for her! I can't imagine my life without her and Im not to sure how I survived without her. I love her, so much.
Okay so heres the problem. We regularly write notes for eachother and stick them in eachothers lockers at school. So one day I put one in her locker that went something like this: "Dear my baby girl,
I love you so much. I can't stand to be without you. I love everything about you, your funny, your beautiful, your lips are as soft as a cloud, and your whole body is absolutely perfect.
Peace, ‹3 and Triforces,
(my name)"

So yeah.... the problem with it was she left it on her kitchen table. And.... Her mom found it. **We are not out to anyone, except a few select friends** Her mom freaked out, grounded her and said we could never see eachother again.
So she texted me later that night and told me what happened, and iI didn't know what to say or do, I still don't. I asked her if we had to break up, she just said she didn't know. We just ignore the subject now, but I still want to know what to do if it ever comes up again. So what should we do? Please help! Any advice would be great. Thanks.

 

Thats a good idea, but my girlfriend will never talk to her mom about it. Shes both stubborn! I've tried getting her to talk to her mom, but she says she can't. So if she really loves me back(thats a different subjuct for a different post), its going to have to be that forbidden thing you were talking about.

 

Good advice. Thank you! Very Much!
Im just not sure when she'll be ready, if she ever will. :/
I've asked her a few times if we could come out together, but she always gets mad! and says "NOOO! Why do you want to sooo bad?" So i just drop the subject by saying "i dont know" or something like that.

 

I guess I just hate hiding it. I want to just beable to hold my girlfriend's hand and a peck her cheek at the mall. I want to beable to put my arm around her at a movie. I want to lock arms with her as we walk down the side walk. I just want people to know that that cute girl standing next to me is my girlfriend. Im not to sure what that means, like if im just jealous or whatever, or if its something maybe a little more serious.

 

Well.....no.
But she hates PDA so she probably wouldn't want me to do any of that regarless of if we're out or not.

 

First for me. Third for her.... all of hers have been in secret, like ours. But she says that I've lasted the longest.

 

Oh and I just remembered another kinda important reason we should come out. Prom, SpringFling, The Winter Dance, The Fall Ball, The Black and White Ball, and all the other dances inbetween that our school has. I would love to, just once, be able to dance with my girlfriend in public. Last time we just ended up slow dancing in the supply closet with the lights dimed...... :/

 

Yes she is. Shes 16 days older than me, so shes not more mature. (the funny thing is we were born in different years)

 

That brings up the one other thing im scared of. Lately, it seems like shes been falling out of love with me.... and it scares me....so much. Like thats why i want to get her out, so i can get her back in love with me. I know I sound dumb right now, but I love this girl! I want to be with her forever. Do you get what im saying? Basically, I just don't want to lose her for going to slow, OR to fast.

 

Okay. You don't even know how inspirational that was! haha Im gunna stay happy, and confident! Thanks!