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Breaking Up

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Jordash, Jan 29, 2012.

  1. Jordash

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    Okay so me and my girlfriend have been on the rocks for a while, and just now I was talking to her threw a social network and Now I Know For Sure, she doesn't love me. How do I go about dumping her?
     
  2. Daisy1

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    Do it in person and say what you feel. It's best to be honest.

    How do you know she doesn't love you? Do you love her?
     
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    If she's made it plain to you she doesn't love you, why is she still with you? Regardless, I wouldn't even bother bringing any of that up. Just say you feel the relationship has run its course, and you'd like to call an end to it.

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    Well, this whole post was really rash and I kinda blindly wrote it.
    But I told her I loved her and this is what she said "no...just...no"
    So yeah...... I just got sad/mad. :/
     
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    If you feel the relationship isn't working, tell her face to face. Write down what you want to say first if you feel it'll help to order your feelings but don't read it. Just tell her face to face and leave.