I've always liked girls, for as long as I can remember. I can think back to times I was 10 or 11 and had a girlie friend over and I would daydream about hugging them, kissing them, touching them (not in a gross way, lol, sorry, can't find any other choice of words) and holding hands with them. But, I have had "crushes" on guys before. Honestly though, I'm not quite so sure they WERE crushes. I've never been ATTRACTED to guys romantically so much that I "want to go out with them" or anything. I do have a "crush" on a guy right now, he's absolutely amazing in every little way and we get along almost flawlessly. But I never think about kissing him when we talk, or anything. I'm just so confused because I thought I was Bisexual but I'm leaning more and more towards girls. Sure, I think some guys are hot and amazing and cool but I'm never... Sexually attracted to them or aroused by them. If I watched gay/straight porn, I'd never get turned on by the guy in the act. Only the girl. Sometimes I believe I just have "crushes" on guys because every girl at my school does. Nobody (unless their in the closet) in my grade/school is LGBT. I feel as if I'm pressured to like guys. My friends always ask me "Ohmygod do you like him? He's so hot." or "Awe, you and Troy would look adorable together, don't you think so?" There was also an incident at school where one of my chick friends and I were walking down the hall. Here's how the convo went: Alyssa: So I've always noticed that guys do this to girls, *puts one arm around my waist and walks with me like that for a few seconds* Me: *blushes, feeling as if electricity was just shocked on my hip* Yeah... Alyssa: *moves away and smiles* It'd be cool to have a guy do that to us one day, huh Lucy? Me: *nodding but secretly wanting to say Eh... :/* Some days I think I'm Lesbian, other times I'm considering that I'm Bi. I'm so confused right now and maybe it's a clear answer. Maybe it's so easy to see, but I just can't grasp it because my vision is so blurred with confusion. </3 Anybody have any answers? Because I don't.
I'm going through pretty much the same thing exactly right now. I think guys are hot, and some days i would like to kiss someone, but not usually, mostly i just think girls are hot secretly. A few people know me as bisexual, and I guess that's what I consider myself too, i'm just way way way more attracted by girls. I'm not for sure that you are bisexual or gay, you'd know that best soon enough, but i think you're gay with straight tendencies. If you were to come out to anyone close to you, I would tell them that you are bisexual but not very interested in guys, or just tell them exactly what you're saying. You could be gay, I think there's also a good chance you are, I think time will be the best way to figure it out.
Hello Well from the looks of it you could be a lesbian but you could also be a bisexual with a leaning towards women. Just because you're bisexual, that doesn't mean you have to like guys and girls at about the same rate. If you look around, you'll see that a lot of bisexuals here will tell you that they lean towards a particular sex. Others will tell you that they like both of them equally and some other bisexuals will tell you that they go through days where they like one sex more than the other but then they'll like the other sex more after some time. Sexuality is very fluid, so don't worry too much about figuring it out so quickly since you're still young. If you're interested in girls right now, then I'd say you should focus on that and not worry about the guys part too much.
