theres this really great guy that i talk to and im really wanting to ask him out but he mentioned that hes only starting to work out his being gay, like he knows he is and hes out to everyone but im thinking should i ask him out yet? what do u guys think?
u could ask him if he wants to hang out, or do something wiht a group of friends and see if that leads to something more...
like i want to make him happy, so i thought since he likes nature ( beaches forests the bush) that i would take him to this forest garden thing that goes onto the beach and maybe we could just talk and see where things go.
Well if he flirts with you and you know he wouldn't say no then go for it! But if theres a chance of rejection and you can't handle rejection then it wouldn't be such a good idea...
i think biisme's idea was good. just ask him to hang out with you and a group of friends first. get to know him better and save that garden for when you two are a little bit more intimate. you shouldnt rush into those kinds of things yet if hes hinting that he may want to take things slow if at all.
I would just ask him to to do something casual, so it does not sound like a date. Grab a beer or coffee, a quick caual bite, a sporting event, etc.
You know exactly what I think. And I really do hope it all goes better than you could imagine for you two!
Yea take it kind of slow and get to know him, but let us know how it goes. Also, if you know any of his interests, you culd look into those a bit and maybe if he really likes some band or something, see if he wanted to go wee them with you, that would be a cool way to get some time with him and get to know him and all of that great stuff. Good luck! (*hug*)
i dont think it will work out. i was talking to him b4 and hes just i dont its like im suddenly not intersted anymore i know its sounds strange but i dont know wats changed
