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Labeling?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by secretguyX, Feb 17, 2012.

  1. secretguyX

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    So I consider myself bisexual at times, and sometimes wonder if I'm gay.
    I'm attracted to girl definitely, and I think some guys are hot, but I don't really see myself having a relationship with a guy, only a girl. But at times I kind of can imagine being in a relationship with a guy, but rarely.
    Sexually, I'm not attracted to anyone. I find anyone nude kind of gross. It may have something to do with my age, and when I get older I will be? Because I don't really see myself as asexual either. I'm not really sure.
     
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    if you're not comfortable, sure of yourself or in the process of figuring yourself out, you might not want to put a label on yourself. you don't have to.
     
  3. castle walls

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    I agree with needshelp. There is no need to rush into labeling yourself. When I was first figuring things out, I just considered myself curious. Even now I don't like labels. Now I identify as pansexual/bisexual (whichever is easier for the other person), but I prefer to consider myself someone that can fall in love with someone regardless of their gender.

    I'd focus on your feelings and what you think they mean instead of wondering what label to apply to yourself. That is what worked for me anyway
     
  4. secretguyX

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    Okay, thank you both. I guess I'll see through time what I am.