I've been identifying myself as a lesbian for awhile now, and I was comfortable with that. Today though...well there's this guy that I've loved for a long time, but recently we lost touch. Today he came over..well, you can guess the rest. I really love him, but now I'm more confused about my sexuality than ever. Advice?!?!?!?!
Yeah, what did you actually do? Sex, just a kiss, what? Either way though, you don't really need to label for yourself.
We had sex. No, we're not dating. I know I don't have to label myself, but I've always felt like I need to have a label. I don't identify with being bisexual, because he's the only guy that can make me feel anything physically...
how do u know he is the only one. the real statement is "he has BEEN the only one". there could be others. you like women predominantly but in the right circumstances you can like a guy equally. that's all.
