Texts between me and the guy im crushing on and have had 3 dates set up and because of his odd job so we have had to cancel... he WANTS to go out, or at least I think he does. but tonight was the 3rd cancelling, and we have been texting.... I have no idea how to read this: (w) = Him (m) = me (m) What you doin? (w) Lol, i just walked back inside lol, its cold out.. (m) Is it? Well that's cool (w) Well to me it is, im from the south not north lol (m) I know lol so am I (w) Lol, me and cold weather dont mix (m) That's what jackets are for silly (w) Lol, i had one on and I was still cold.. (m) Well get a heavier one lol (w) Good point lol (m) Anyway (w) Thats a deep subject.. (m) I'm just bored sorry And lonely You are seriously one of only two people that answer my teta Texts (w) Really??, whats wrong? (m) Just home alone as usual gets kinda lonely I'm too afraid I'll run into -exhusbands name- to go anywhere alone and everyone seems to think that because I'm a mom they can't invite me to do things so I'm always home alone when I'm not in school or at work (w) They dont need to think that now... (m) I can't control what other people think lol (w) I know, but dont let them put you down... (m) I just desperately need social interaction and I dont get it (w) Oh... (m) Yeah mom dad and lily are about it (w) Those are the most important in your life.. (m) Agreed just need some time not being a mom every now and then And time with friends... If I had any here in town (w) I understand.. And you do have friends.. (m) Your basically not on tow -friends name- is not in town and my one other friend lives in chief land (w) Oh, well im going to try to be here every other weekend.. (m) Your busy with family which is fine and I understand Sorry didn't mean to unload on you (w) No your fine.. (m) I really shouldn't have I'm sorry (w) Your fine, dont worry about it.. You shouldn't worry about me and I shouldn't tell you all this and make you worry you have enough to worry about (w) Again dont worry bout it lol (m) (w) come on and smile... (m) I feel bad for venting on you (w) You shouldnt.. (m) Why not? Lol they aren't your problems lol (w) Lol, its good to have someone to vent too.. (m) But not the person your crushing on lol (w) (m) I can't beleive I said that (w) (m) Sorry (w) For what..? (m) Embarrassing myself (w) You didn't (m) How not (w) You just didnt.. (m) If you say so lol (w) Lol So.... whats this mean???
Without reading into it too much, he likes you at the very least as a friend. And you admitted you like him as more than that, and he didn't take it badly. So at best, you have someone who might be interested back. At worst, you have a decent friend.
Hi there! As BudderMC mentioned in his post, at the very least he likes you as a friend. You have admitted to him that you have a crush on him, and he kept talking to you, and reassured you that you didn't embarrass yourself. I think you already have a good friend in him. If he is interested in being more than friends, he will give you clues, and will let you know. For now, enjoy the friendship...
I just wish I knew where to go from here. He's leaving back to school today, apparently he will be coming back every other weekend. I just..... We text nightly, a LOT and yea...
Hi there! I think one way to deal with it is to try to make the most of his visits. Try to get together with him when he is in town. Another way to deal with it would be trying to start moving on, by making some new friends, and perhaps trying to find someone with whom there is a chance that it might work out. (*hug*)
