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I hate being confused...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Doomgirl96, Feb 26, 2012.

  1. Doomgirl96

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    Okay, I'm a 13 year old girl and i think(?)I'm bi...
    I'm not sure anymore...i mean i have a huge crush on this girl, and i don't think i like the guys anymore...I think its mostly gonna be telling people that im gay that scares me the most....:icon_sad: I just need advice.....
     
  2. Jim1454

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    Hi there and welcome to EC.

    Your profile says you're out to a friend, and that other people now know as well. It sounds like you don't really need to tell people - so nothing to be afraid of?

    I know it's not as simple as that. If I were you - at your age - I wouldn't bother coming out to anyone. Is it really necessary? Do you need to define yourself sexually at 13? I don't think so. So if you're stressed about coming out, don't. Keep it to yourself for a couple more years - when you're feeling better about it and have more confidence around the issue.