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"everybody thinks your gay"

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Ty, Dec 30, 2007.

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  1. Ty

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    [c=48]Liam..LoveYouElise(L)[/c] UMAR GOT MERKED ON FIGHT NIGHT 8-3:grin: says: (14:35:24)
    tyrone everyone here thinks your gayy:slight_smile:

    [c=48]Liam..LoveYouElise(L)[/c] UMAR GOT MERKED ON FIGHT NIGHT 8-3:grin: says: (14:35:24)
    but i dont
    Ty! - J'en ai jamais assez, je suis vite lassé! says: (14:35:37)
    ok?

    Urgh
    So now i know that when my friends get together and im not there, im in their discussions.
    its been silence since i responded..
    I hate this....
     
    #1 Ty, Dec 30, 2007
  2. Latinokid

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    Haha ty.....if only you knew...all of the girls in my class talked about me last year in the lockerroom they all i guess had the possibiblity of mebeing gay very likely so when i came out they were all cool with it and one of my best friends whos a girl kept trying to out me last yr..dam bitch but yah i kept spazzing out on her but know she knows and were cool =] were homie dawgs now lol......i think its better if u come out..
     
    #2 Latinokid, Dec 30, 2007
  3. Owen

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    Try to think of it like this: if they already suspect it, it'll be easier to come out to them.
     
    #3 Owen, Dec 30, 2007
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    Yup. if they think you're gay and are still fine to hang out with you... then they'll be no change when you come out to them and their suspicions are confirmed.

    Good luck Ty
     
    #4 Jamie, Dec 30, 2007
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    Although I don't want to be the barrel of bad news, people say different things about you before they find out you're gay. One of my friends told me right in my face that: "It wouldn't matter if you're gay, I'd still be your friend." A month after I came out to him, he freaked and avoided me like the plague. This happened last year in November and he finally came around in September and told me he accepts me for who I am. I'm pretty sure your friends will be more accepting quicker than my friend was, so just ignore my post.:icon_wink
     
    #5 Étoile, Dec 30, 2007
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    I just had the same experience...
    I just noticed that when I was not around, my friends would discussion whether I was gay or not...
     
    #6 Ikoas, Feb 2, 2008
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    All of my friends think that I'm gay too. They just don't have the balls to tell me! Like the other day I walked in on 2 of my ex-girl friends talkinf about me being gay. It's actually kinda funny now that I think about it. Kinda ironic ya' know?
     
    #7 Brett, Feb 2, 2008
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    If they expect it it shall (forbidden word.) be easy to COME OUT(MWAHAHAHA)
     
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    This thread is more than five years old. Let's let it rest in peace.
     
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