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ReComing Out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by secretguyX, Feb 29, 2012.

  1. secretguyX

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    So I came out to a few people as bisexual a few months ago. Only 3 were my friends, and one is kinda pissed at me for a certain reason at the moment, so it's only two people. I've secretly known all along that I was, but I just accepte that I was fully gay throughout the past few days.
    So right now it's 4am. And I really feel like I need to get this off my chest to one of them tomorrow. But I may not get the chance to talk to either of them alone tomorrow, probably not, and I prefer doing it one person at a time, I feel more comfortable. I probably wouldn't be sleeping now anyways, but I don't think I'll be able to sleep at all tonight. Because I'm so worried, even more worried then I was coming out to them the first time. But I need to say it. I feel like I'm going to explode if I don't.
    You may say I shouldn't be rushing this, but I really need to get this off my chest, and someone who already knows me as bisexual would be easier, although I could always tell a friend who doesn't know at all. I don't know what to do!
     
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    I'll note this:
    It's two hours later, and the pathetic twenty minutes of sleep I got last night really helped to calm me down and rationalize. I'm not so hung up on telling people instantly anymore.
     
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    Its always good to try and sleep on things, although sometimes that is easier said than done. Try not to stress these things usually work themselves out.