If the first thing u think when u look at a guy is like say, "he looks hot" doesn't that mean that your gay?
Well... There's a bit more to it than that. You can find other men attractive and still be straight. Besides, nobody here can say whether or not you're gay. We can only help you come to the conclusion that you are, aren't, or at somewhere in the middle x
Nope. Also depends on what you mean by hot. I know straight guys who say other men are good-looking. Not so much "hot" though. More likely it means you're non-straight, whatever that means or becomes in the LGBTQ spectrum. Also, I know someone very straight who fell for one girl. That's it for her. She likes men every other time. You never know what it could mean. But I would say you should keep your mind open.
I think i would need to ask a very personal question: which gender do you fantasize most about when you're masturbating? If it's male, then there's a high chance you might at the very least be bisexual
i've thought guys are hot but i have no interest in an intimate relationship with them. can you visualize yourself in a relationship with a man?
I used to have a friend that would say things like "He's hot" but was 100% straight. If the person is comfortable with their sexuality, saying/thinking someone is hot or attractive doesn't necessarily mean anything. But if you're attracted to the person, then it's probably different. If when looking at a hot guy you think you'd wanna have sex, be in a relationship, etc. with them, then there's a big chance you're bi or gay.
Due to the girls comment, guessing gay because if you liked girls you'd probably say that you like girls. Bi guys like girls and guys, to varying degrees depending on the bi.