1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Getting over an ex.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bryan176, Mar 24, 2012.

  1. bryan176

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 7, 2011
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Boston Massachuttes
    Does anyone know how to get over an ex, that you still have a strong attraction for?
    I ended up breaking up with my ex because I was afraid of getting into a relationship. But now I really want him back and he is seeing someone else. I have told him everything so there is nothing he doesn't know. But I need to help letting go of him and stop beating myself up for what i did. Please help. I can't seem to let go I really love him a lot.:tears:
     
  2. Zaio

    Zaio Guest

    Only 3 things you can do to get over someone.

    Space - Distance yourself from him as to not see him as much as usual.
    Time - Won't exactly happen fast but it will happen.
    Someone else to focus on - Exactly what it says on the tin. Once you have someone else to focus on your focus on him will be drawn away.
     
  3. bryan176

    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 7, 2011
    Messages:
    130
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Boston Massachuttes
    distance only makes it worse. I know time will help and it sucks. I can't focus on someone else because i will not feel the same i do for him.