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Very picky aromantic homosexual?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Pandabear, Mar 31, 2012.

  1. Pandabear

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    It is so weird I was really never interested in sex, and I am 29 already so I didn't expect it to change, but I got curious about sucking cocks but I don't even find males attractive, maybe few less masculine, and cute ones but I didn't even see anybody like in rl recently, so I don't know if that interest would exist outside of fantasy. I love futa, futa manipulations, and cocks but seeing one on male is a turn off or at best not a complete turn off, especially seeing they faces. I had tried to watch gay porn but most of it turns me off.

    I have no experience other then kissing, and french kissing with girls that didn't made me feel anything. I could had sex with females but I didn't felt any interest in that. I did think about giving bj to one male but I felt apathetic about it was just a thought, it was long time ago, and otherwise nothing like that had happen. Now I actually feel interested in doing it.

    Oh god I feel completely stupid about what I had written, maybe because it reads to me like: Gay, gay, gay. Now gay. Am I gay? I also feel too old for that. I am almost 30 I should conserve my energy, and plan my retirement. I am not even sure what I am confused about but I feel confused, and it doesn't help that I am attracted mostly to cartoons, and photoshops.
     
  2. PurpleCrab

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    Sounds like your tittle is about right from reading your post there... But you're still discovering your sexuality with very little interest it would seem. It's all fine you know, but maybe you'd be interested in trying this test: Take the Test « Flexuality
    It may help your introspection process.

    Just a little comment on the side; yeah you're in the middle of your adulthood but planning your retirement doesn't mean you need to spend all your time on it; just a visit at the bank, a bit of research and an hour a month should do just fine. There's (hopefully) many many years ahead of you and you can complete many goals in that time!

    Good luck :slight_smile:
     
  3. Pandabear

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    Meh I guess. I feel much less apathetic recently then usual but it is still likely to be way below average.

    Restrained ambisexual, but the results probably got messed up by questions about romantic orientation.

    lol that comment wasn't serious. It isn't that bad with me.
     
  4. Ettina

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    Heh. I just took the test and came out as ambisexual. Probably because several questions were unskippable and had no asexual option, and I ended up picking the bisexual option as being the closest fit. (For example, when they asked which gender I'm more likely to find attractive.)
     
  5. Phoenixaaa

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    My results:
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    Ambisexual - 0
    Flexamorous - 4
    Queer - 3
    Gay - 7

    Also, transitioning 5 and metmorphic 4. (I am comfortable with whatever shape or form I am or will be in the future. For now, the label 'just me' is a good enough answer.)
     
  6. Farouche

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    That test places sexual orientation on a one-dimensional spectrum. Sexual orientation can be better described using two dimensions, the other one being overall sexual desire.