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He texted me back! :D

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Waffles, Apr 6, 2012.

  1. Waffles

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    Hi guys!
    So, I haven't seen my friend since last summer, and I decided to text him.
    And he responded! :grin:
    He doesn't know I'm bisexual, and I really wanna tell him.
    But I don't wanna make things awkward... cuz I really like him.
    Advice please?
     
  2. stumble along

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    Just say hey and asks what's up, tell him a lot of stuff has happened to you and if he asks why then tell him, if not then tell him after he tells you what's been going on for him.
     
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    I think if you really want to tell him that the best thing you can do is just come out with it. If it's through something like text messaging, it will be a lot easier than if it were face-to-face. I say go for it and hope that he's supportive. :slight_smile: Good luck.
     
  4. Waffles

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    We started talking about ex-gfs, and then he said he was tired, so he went to bed.
    He had to go to bed, and I forgot to tell him. OTL
    Literally, 5 minutes after this post he had to go to bed.
    He wants to text some more today, so I plan on telling him.
    I don't want him to flip out, but he's pretty chill. So fingers crossed. :3

    ... what's worse is that I've had a crush on him since 8th grade.
    I don't plan on telling him that part... or should I?
    If so, when? ._.
     
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    Probably not the best idea to tell him right after coming out to him. I would personally give that part some time.
     
  6. Waffles

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    I figured, but I wasn't sure.
    Thanks for the advice. ^^